01 5 / 2012
“I was prom queen. And the year before, I was prom king.”
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01 5 / 2012
::QB Series::Meet this BOI::
Ken B is a mentor, speaker, equal rights advocate, but more importantly Ken is a MAN…with a transitional experience. As a transgender male (FTM); Ken has a special connection to the LGBTQ community. His first experience with rejection/discrimination was when his mother took him to a therapist to “cure” him while he was a teen. Family members told him “God doesn’t make mistakes”. After receiving rejection from every person in his life overcome with loneliness & depression, he had given up. A failed suicide attempt made ken reevaluate his purpose “I’ve been through so much and I’m still Standing…There’s purpose in that pain”
Ken B has been a panelist for numerous trans related discussions. He also serves as a mentor to young men who may be at vulnerable stages in their transition. His participation in trans education programs have afforded him the opportunity to have his story archived in The Library of Congress, the Smithsonian Institute’s National Museum of African American History and Culture & active participant in the It Gets Better Project.
Contact Ken B: www.fromthemindofaman.com
**Pictures taken by QBG Photography
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01 5 / 2012
andrej pejic shares details about his upcoming threesome for jean paul gaultier. [x]
[Reblogged because Andrej makes me laugh. -R]
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26 4 / 2012
Thailand: striking, transgender and running for office
You wouldn’t know it from this photo, but Yonlada “Nok” Suanyot was born male.
And if Nok wins a coming election in a sleepy, largely conservative Thai province, she could become the highest-ranking transgender politician in the country’s history.
Nok, according to both the Bangkok Postand The Nation, is competing for provincial office in Nan, Thailand. To the best of my knowledge, no male-to-female transgender Thai (called “kathoeys” in Thai) has been elected to anything higher than a small, district-level position.
She is perhaps best known as the singer “Posh Venus” in an all-transgender pop group called Venus Flytrap. (Nok has since left the group.)
Thailand is often seen as widely accepting of kathoeys. Compared to most societies, it is. But outside of the entertainment industry, kathoeys often find it difficult to ascend to lofty positions of power.
Upwardly mobile kathoeys often feel they’re passed over and not taken seriously. They remain the butt of jokes on televised variety shows. Until a recent change in military policy, they were conscripted and summarily dismissed as “permanently insane” or “deformed,” a diagnosis that appears on papers male-born Thais are often expected to submit during job interviews. (My article “The Lovely Conscripts”profiled this phenomenon in 2010.)
But the artist formerly known as Posh Venus appears to have earned her business bonafides. According to The Nation, she’s a PhD candidate who “owns a jewellery business and runs a satellite television station.”
In her bid for office, Nok will likely find that her looks overshadow her political platform. A Facebook photo of Nok standing next to her campaign signage suggests she’s running on typical Thai political promises: addressing flood woes, services for youth and the elderly and a vow to open a 24-hour citizen complaint hotline.
Via his Facebook page, here’s her most viable rival, Pawat Sattayawong, a candidate with Thailand’s ruling political party, Pheu Thai.
A victory for Nok wouldn’t usher in a new era of universal acceptance for Thailand’s kathoeys.
But many Thais will be curious to see whether a transgendered candidate can win over enough voters to gain political power in an otherwise sleepy province.
Source: http://www.globalpost.com/globalpost-blogs/southeast-asia/transgender-yonlada-suanyot
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26 4 / 2012
Beyond Binary: Genderqueer and Sexually Fluid Speculative Fiction
Speculative fiction is the literature of questions, of challenges and imagination, and what better to question than the ways in which gender and sexuality have been rigidly defined, partitioned off, put in little boxes? These seventeen stories explore the ways in which identity can go beyond binary from space colonies to small college towns, from angels to androids, and from a magical past to other worlds entirely, the authors in this collection have brought to life wonderful tales starring people who proudly define (and redefine) their own genders, sexualities, identities, and so much else in between.
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26 4 / 2012
Trans* Visibility and the Creation of Safe Spaces
It’s Saturday, April 21st, and in Phoenix, that means it’s the beginning of Pride weekend. At least, this year it means that. It also means that the sun will be high in the sky and beaming down on all of us. The air will settle in the valley and raise in temperature until it reaches the 90s. I recently had my top surgery, as most of you know. It was the perfect reason to not wear a shirt for most of the day, despite the sun potentially darkening my scars. There is something more empowering about making a shirtless debut than the fear of having scars that will be forever visible.
The general public isn’t used to seeing scars. Therefore, they tend to gawk a little bit. By “a little bit” I really mean “a lot”. I was nervous about going to Pride shirtless. I’m not afraid of being visibly trans* or queer usually. I come out to a lot of people. I share my experiences with strangers, and I’ll educate anyone who asks me something. It’s in my nature to play this role. In truth, my experience has been that while straight, cisgender individuals know less about the existence of trans* folks, they’re more accepting and more willing to learn compared to the gay, cisgender folks with whom I interact. This may not be everyone’s experiences. It certainly doesn’t apply to everyone in my social sphere. It’s noticeable though.
This made me nervous. I wanted to go to Pride to have fun, to dance, to party with my friends. I wanted to go as a scandalous, femme queer. I didn’t want to be educator for a day. At the festival, I was certainly gawked at. People stared, pointed, whispered things. I expected to be approached. I expected to pegged as trans*. Maybe someone whispered something about my visibility. Maybe they didn’t. No one I didn’t know approached about it though. I quickly realized I had overestimated those who take part in homonormative culture. Most people didn’t know I was trans* it seemed like. It seemed as though the general consensus was a “concern” for my exposing my scars to public eyes.
I decided to change the course for the day. Maybe I could play educator without having to talk so much. Maybe I could represent trans* people to a degree while still being able to dance all night. My friend Christian and I went to the Art Expo tent. We got our hands on some paint, and he painted “Transgender Pride” on my chest, and, yes, I do have a tan line now from some of the letters, regrettably not all of them.
There were two people who presented as women behind him as he painted these words on me. They smiled in such a way that exuded relief. One of them introduced herself to me and asked for my name. There weren’t very many words exchanged. We had a trans* moment. I wouldn’t say they “looked” trans*, because I don’t even know what that means. I just had a feeling, especially considering the look of immense gratitude on one of their faces. She smiled again, shook my hand while saying it was nice to meet me, and said “God bless you.” It last less than five minutes, but it was a very powerful for me. As folks who are presumably trans women, being visible for them is much more dangerous than it is for me.
Not everyone has the ability (or the desire) to be visibly trans* or queer. A lot our community shames those people. I often reprimand those who do by reminding them that we need to make safer spaces for people to be visible in as opposed to shaming them for feeling unsafe in unsafe spaces. It’s complicated in the trans* community, with the difference between trans* identified and being of trans* experience. Not everyone who transitions is trans* and therefore has nothing to come out as.
Our community has varying levels of privilege. Therefore, we also have varying access to safe spaces and support. This is double-edged sword I feel. I want to say that it is my duty as someone who is more privileged than others in some ways to be visible. It is safer for me to do so. Conversely, my privileges make me, others like me, and others more privileged than me the most visible, which is problematic as it lends to the erasure of the rest of our community.
Trans* activism requires that we check ourselves, our access to privilege, and examine our experiences in comparison to those of others and in comparison to paradigms. White, binary, trans men who feel safe being visible should do so, but then learn to move back, to make space for the non-binary folks, for the trans* folks of color, for the trans* folks who are gendered male at birth.
It’s not about moving forward to only take the limelight. That shows the world the existence of a singular type of trans* person, which lends itself to the normative trans* narrative. It’s about moving forward, spreading out as much as possible, and inviting others to move forward while you move back, not in retreat, but out of respect and solidarity.
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26 4 / 2012
"Look how your children grow up. Taught from their earliest infancy to curb their love natures — restrained at every turn! Your blasting lies would even blacken a child’s kiss. Little girls must not be tomboyish, must not go barefoot, must not climb trees, must not learn to swim, must not do anything they desire to do which Madame Grundy has decreed “improper.” Little boys are laughed at as effeminate, silly girl-boys if they want to make patchwork or play with a doll. Then when they grow up, “Oh! Men don’t care for home or children as women do!” Why should they, when the deliberate effort of your life has been to crush that nature out of them. “Women can’t rough it like men.” Train any animal, or any plant, as you train your girls, and it won’t be able to rough it either."
Voltairine de Cleyre (via petitefeministe)
The best part of this essay is when she advocates for children to be brought up with no gender-role stereotyping, and gets in some not-so-subtle digs at heterocentricism and heterosexism in the process.
Did I mention this was written over a hundred years ago? Because it totally was.
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26 4 / 2012
Addressing my “past”-skylareleven. Skylar talks about how he relates to his past and his trans* identity 3 years on testosterone and post top surgery and hysto.
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26 4 / 2012
Paige Bradley created one of the most striking sculptures I’ve seen in recent times. Her masterpiece, entitled Expansion, is a beautiful woman seeking inner piece but fractured and bleeding with light.
“From the moment we are born, the world tends to have a container already built for us to fit inside: a social security number, a gender, a race, a profession,” says Bradley. “I ponder if we are more defined by the container we are in than what we are inside. Would we recognize ourselves if we could expand beyond our bodies?”
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